Happy Solstice week! May you find, in these summer months, new games to play. This was a game I offered to a room full of people once…
Women and the queer people in my life are those who have consistently given me the most permission to be curious about what turns me on, and to find what works for me without shame. Stories, suggestions, questions… Above almost everything else, I value these things.
Literally getting permission from my friends and partners has taught me to squirt (female ejaculate), to identify as queer/bi, to identify as trans, to have multiple orgasms, to have stellar threesomes, to try innumerable BDSM and kink related activities… I look forward to what permission I am given next. In the meantime, the stories and words of others have helped me give permission to myself.
She said, “I thought, what if I want to get sexual in that circumstance? No one would have to know. I could try and see for myself how it feels.”
She said, “He dances so well, and is an amazing flirt…”
They said, “I’m seeing X this afternoon for a quickie and then I’m driving to the next state to spend the night with Y, but I think this guy is going to come over for a few minutes in about an hour first.”
She said, “I want you to suck my husband’s cock.”
He said, “I gave head to over 30 strange men sitting under that tree over there one evening.”
He said, “I think Creature deserves some attention now, they’ve been really good to us tonight.”
They said, “I think you can take a little more, you’re doing so well for me. I’m going to hit you one more time, this time much harder.”
She said, “I’ve been working with the energies of Babalon lately. I’m finding it incredibly empowering.”
He said, “You see? You just need more time and to be very relaxed.”
They said, “I think you can orgasm at least one more time. Try it for me.”
The people in my life who listen to the rousing of their own bodies, who notice and consider the stirrings of their own minds, who look outward to others for consenting faces in the crowd and manage negotiation without pressure, the people in my life who know there’s something beyond the script we’re given in TV episodes, or what we learn from friends in the schoolyard, those people have given me access to parts of myself I didn’t even know I was missing. Those people have inspired my longings and the subsequent actions I take. They have lifted me, as I carve new room for possibility within myself.
Play On My Friends,
~ Creature
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