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I love the game Truth or Dare! I find it fascinating to observe what people do and don't have a hard time trying out, sharing with others, negotiating to change, or taking a pass on... Obviously there … [Read On You Crazy Diamonds...]

Last We Heard:

Getting it Wrong Like a Pro

If I am going to care about being correct, I must also care about being wrong. ~ Karin Webb "If I … [Show Me Just a Little Bit More...]

Rotten Election Sex Party Wisdom

I was engaged for the evening of election night in a BDSM threesome with lovely perverted friends of … [Article Link...]

BDSM Skillshare Classes, PRIDE, and Doing Something…

I've been talking for a long while about starting a BDSM skillshare class, and tonight is my first … [Read More...]

Sex Work, Emotional Labor, Feminism, Gender Diversity, and… Hi again!

When I wake up at 6am it turns out I get some good thinking/articulation done. I think it also helps … [Article Link...]

Finding Oneself Daily

I wasn't intending on writing a blog today, but I found myself multitasking in a way that makes me … [Article Link...]

Words, Concepts, Questions, Closing

Here are some words, concepts, and questions to look at when exploring Sexuality/BDSM/Kink…  While … [Article Link...]

Looking Back:

Identity Stories

My Identity is a series of stories I haven't pieced together yet, and I never fully … [Please Sir, May I Have Another...]

Sports Bar Fantasy

To start out, some thoughts... Not surprisingly I've been thinking a lot about sex, sexual … [Article Link...]

My Needles are in!!! My Needles are in!!!

I have a performance coming up this weekend which demanded I learn some new tricks and order … [Article Link...]

Why Write? Why Kink? Why Find? Why Say?

From the darkness… Creation. A light glows, imperceptible upon arrival, grows; soon unbearable its … [Article Link...]

Kink Blog’s Resurrection Brought to You by the Asheville DMV

Why hello Dear Readers, *Note: Blog updated 11/21/16 to reflect the current "published" status of … [Article Link...]

I’m Late for a Very Important Date!

This is a late post apologizing for my lack of a real post yesterday, and to let you know I'm not … [Article Link...]

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