Our Most Recent Kinky Musings:

March! And Understand that Intersectionality is Freedom

I've been craving queer space lately. One of the fantasies I have is that someone will throw a completely queer party for me while I'm on tour, and I'll find myself surrounded by dancing people just … [Read On You Crazy Diamonds...]

Last We Heard:

Help! I’m New To Kink!

Please check out my Truth or Dare blog and fill out your own game card! I love reading people’s … [Show Me Just a Little Bit More...]

W is for Whip

If you’re in the mood for playing a game, please fill out a card for my Truth or … [Article Link...]

Gender Construction Underway: Closed Until Marketing Complete

I went to New Orleans this past weekend to see friends and get my sex-geek exposure levels back to … [Read More...]

Getting it Wrong Like a Pro

If I am going to care about being correct, I must also care about being wrong. ~ Karin Webb "If I … [Article Link...]

Rotten Election Sex Party Wisdom

I was engaged for the evening of election night in a BDSM threesome with lovely perverted friends of … [Article Link...]

BDSM Skillshare Classes, PRIDE, and Doing Something…

I've been talking for a long while about starting a BDSM skillshare class, and tonight is my first … [Article Link...]

Looking Back:

Kink Dreams Are Made of These: Truth or Dare

Come out, come out wherever you are! Check out my Truth or Dare blog and fill out your own game … [Please Sir, May I Have Another...]

Enjoy the Whips, Yet Some Days are Soft

If you're in the mood for playing, fill out a card for my Truth or Dare game, and then please, read … [Article Link...]


I love the game Truth or Dare! I find it fascinating to observe what people do and don't have a hard … [Article Link...]

Identity Stories

My Identity is a series of stories I haven't pieced together yet, and I never fully … [Article Link...]

Sports Bar Fantasy

To start out, some thoughts... Not surprisingly I've been thinking a lot about sex, sexual … [Article Link...]

My Needles are in!!! My Needles are in!!!

I have a performance coming up this weekend which demanded I learn some new tricks and order … [Article Link...]

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