Our Most Recent Kinky Musings:

Capacity for Pleasure

My morning thoughts today: Sooo tired, bone achingly so, but happy and calm. My skin feels less and less like my own as I grow older, even as my body's shape and weight fluctuations, firmness, and … [Read On You Crazy Diamonds...]

Last We Heard:

Teaching and Learning

I’ve been having a blast teaching about kink and gender up and down the east coast for the past … [Show Me Just a Little Bit More...]


Join in the fun by filling out a card for our Truth or Dare game… I am currently on tour for about … [Article Link...]

March! And Understand that Intersectionality is Freedom

I've been craving queer space lately. One of the fantasies I have is that someone will throw a … [Read More...]

Kink Dreams Are Made of These: Truth or Dare

Come out, come out wherever you are! Check out my Truth or Dare blog and fill out your own game … [Article Link...]

Enjoy the Whips, Yet Some Days are Soft

If you're in the mood for playing, fill out a card for my Truth or Dare game, and then please, read … [Article Link...]


I love the game Truth or Dare! I find it fascinating to observe what people do and don't have a hard … [Article Link...]

Looking Back:

Adult Playground

I'm in the middle of an East Coast tour performing my solo show, NO SHAME, I'm appearing in a few … [Please Sir, May I Have Another...]

National Abortion Coming Out Day

One of the things that contributes to healthy BDSM and Kink is the clear understanding that we own … [Article Link...]

Help! I’m New To Kink!

Please check out my Truth or Dare blog and fill out your own game card! I love reading people’s … [Article Link...]

W is for Whip

If you’re in the mood for playing a game, please fill out a card for my Truth or … [Article Link...]

Gender Construction Underway: Closed Until Marketing Complete

I went to New Orleans this past weekend to see friends and get my sex-geek exposure levels back to … [Article Link...]

Getting it Wrong Like a Pro

If I am going to care about being correct, I must also care about being wrong. ~ Karin Webb "If I … [Article Link...]

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