Kink List 2014

As we close out the first Month of 2014 I wanted to share some of the Kinky New Year Resolutions I received from people recently:

  • Create kinky art through painting/drawing
  • Have another safe 6 person orgy with my Rhode Island friends!
  • More rope bondage and how to effectively/safely apply it in scenes and sexual encounters with my partner
  • Become more comfortable with dealing pain
  • Get better at negotiations and role playing within scenes
  • Use more toys on my partner
  • Better appreciate and support my partner’s submissive side  while I continue to grow in confidence and be more loving, nurturing, caring, and Dominant
  • 2014 will be my year of butt sex (and skip to 1:00 for:  ROBOT BUTT? — Mind Blow #42)
  • Learn more about my submissive identity
  • Wax play (gotta find a good space)
  • Go to Fetishcon 2014 in Tampa, FL this year as a photographer instead of a model
  • Attend the Fetish Flea for the 1st time
  • Attend a Bound in Boston play party with my fiance
  • Go to less Sinomatic/Jaded events (feeling too old now)
  • Orgasm from breath control alone
  • Conquer my fear of certain fetish gear items
  • Chastity play
  • Go to my first kink party
  • Find a fisting partner
  • Start *doing* kink (because now I’m tied down to someone I like!)
  • Find a third partner
  • Incorporate bondage into sex
  • Tickling
  • Finish making that strap-on harness out of the materials I’ve been collecting so I can finally fuck people with it

Thank you contributors, what a lovely gorgeous naughty list!  While I hope you’re never too old to play well with others, it looks like there are a lot of different events and opportunities people have to play, learn, and experiment at this year.  And wherever you are, the Kink Fairy blesses you to go out and make it happen.  This list has given me some ideas too; I hope, Dear Readers, that all this talk of Kinky fun inspires your own desires.

To Breath and Being,
~ Karin

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~Thank you.

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Introducing: M.O.B.

I was at a MOB meeting this weekend, and attended their “Sadistic Micro-Bondage” workshop with fabulous guest presenter Athena_Kali (which you could take at this spring’s Bound in Boston weekend).  I had an absolute blast, so this Wednesday I thought I’d write about the group I’ve know about the longest here in kinky Boston: the one and only collective of ‘Multi-Orgasmic Bitches’ known as MOB!

The official bio goes like this:  

Mob New England is a group for all women, including transsexual/transgender/intersex women who live their daily lives as women, and all female-born transgender/genderqueer persons age 21 and over who have an interest in BDSM. We offer social and play events, educational demos, and informal opportunities to socialize, have fun and build a sense of community. We claim as positive forces in our lives our many and varied interests in kink, bondage, domination and submission, sadomasochism, leather and perversion.  Please visit our website for more info: mobnewengland.org

I’ve known about MOB since 1999 when I started working at Grand Opening! Sexuality Boutique.  I would work the Fetish Fairs as a vendor, and these sexy leather and sometimes hanky clad women would come by my table, flirt, and drop me info about the party they were hosting that weekend (MOB is known for the awesome parties it hosts)…  I went to one with a performer friend of mine, and it was the first kink/sex party I’d ever been to!  It was amazing.  I remember not knowing anyone and being nervous around all the leather and implements of destruction, nipple clamps, spanking sounds, and obviously loving and developed connections between partygoers.  So I sat quietly in a corner out of the way and watched.  I was drawn to a scene where a woman was being mummified with plastic wrap and scotch tape by a group of attendees.  It was beautiful, raw, loving, and I couldn’t take my eyes off of what was happening.  I caught the eye of the ringleader and was offered a place to come help…  and so I was invited into my first ever kinky interaction.  After finishing the mummification and some rough play, we led this person, blindfolded and vulnerable all over the hotel.  I remember we ended up in Midori’s room (one of my by-far favorite kink teachers), where she asked if anyone knew how to blow an egg.  I did, so proceeded to blow the raw egg white and yolk out of it’s shell while the rest of the party hung out and chatted about Midori’s workshop the following day – something about redirecting people’s expectations in a scene.  The egg was going to be filled with lemon juice before being used on a workshop participant as a ball gag.  The participant would be told that the egg had been filled with some other liquid that morning, as it put in their mouth, and it would be mentioned that Midori had drunk a lot of water the night before…  It was a fun time hanging out, and eventually we left, brought the mummified woman and her partner to their room and went our separate ways.

It was one of the first magical evenings in my life.  It spun my head around 360 degrees, and I never looked at my own sexuality the same way again, though it would be almost 15 years until I was ready to find the kink community and find myself in that world again.  When I realized I had to be a part of the kink community here in Boston, that I needed to find myself outside of the relationships I’d had where there was no room for that over the years, I re-found MOB.  I will never be less than grateful that they still exist and that they create a space for people – wherever they are at on their journey – to find safety, inspiration, and sometimes home.

If you’re at the Winter Fleamarket this March in Warwick/Providence area Rhode Island, hit up the MOB table and support them if you can.

To Breath and Being,
~ Karin

If you like my blog, please check out my Patreon Page and consider supporting me, or just click here: Support the Artist

~Thank you.

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Storytime: Shapeshifting Bedfellows

I am delighted that people write me and share pieces of themselves, of their experiences, and about the ways their sexuality and kink experiences have moved them in their lifetimes.  I recently received the following story in my inbox.  At first I didn’t see how it applied to kink per se, but stick with it, I think it has a really lovely end and I enjoy the musing.

Have you ever had a shapeshifting experience or been around someone else who has?

To Breath and Being,
~ Karin

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"Apollo und Daphne" by Jakob Auer

“Apollo und Daphne” by Jakob Auer

Karin,  Here’s a true story about My girl:

I was part of something incredible Saturday night that I have never experienced before, so I thought I would write about it. I’m not sure if I can put into words what I witnessed but I’ll try.

Once a month I vend at Sinomatic in Boston. I love the energy, especially when I am with My babygirl/slave daisy_kitten. She had a family obligation so she wasn’t sure she would make it back in time to go, but I told her I would rather be late with her than on time without her.

The crowd was light, and sales were low, but I really didn’t care, I was able to spend some time with My daisy, playing a bit, feeling her amazing skin, just having her near Me was all I needed. She had changed into a skin tight snakeskin patterned dress, and I couldn’t keep My hands or eyes off her. She loved the attention, the touching, the spanking and the whacks from her special, crystal studded toy I made just for her.

At 2AM we packed up and heading out for the long trip back to NH in My truck. daisy had changed back into her street clothes, tight white capris and a tank top. My hands kept finding her lap and she was squirming all over the seat, unbuttoning her pants and helping Me slide My fingers over her smooth cunt. She was soaked as she always is when we are together. My fingers dipped into her and she lifted right off the seat, trying to get My fingers in deeper. All this is going on as I am driving up 93 at 70 MPH trying to concentrate on driving and pleasuring her. At one point she was convulsing so much she hit the shift and pushed it in neutral which slowed us down a bit but certainly didn’t stop us!

We pulled into a motel parking lot, got in the backseat and attacked each other. She tore her clothes off and I couldn’t  wait to taste her. She has the sweetest tasting cunt I have ever experienced, her full soft lips, smooth skin and hard clit make Me want to clamp My mouth on her every chance I can. She always has the same reaction every time I lick her, moaning and thrusting as if just that first touch of My tongue will make her cum.

I love teasing her, licking softly around her lips, tasting and touching her before I put My mouth fully on her, pushing My tongue deep into her then flicking My tongue across her clit. It drives her wild, and I love hearing the moans and sounds she makes.

She loves My fingers in her. We have talked about fisting, but that is going to take some time. I have really big, wide hands, and she has the tightest little cunt. It WILL happen, but that’s for another day, tonight I wanted to just make her cum and cum.

daisy has a very easy to find G-spot. When I rub it, she tightens down on Me, and when she cums its almost painfully tight on My two fingers. I can feel that hot wet cunt squeezing My fingers as I type this. The very thought of how she feels makes Me hard every time. Damn, how I love owning this exquisitely beautiful woman/girl!

I can always tell when she’s about to cum, her body starts trembling all over, her cunt gets tighter and tighter, and if she’s really turned on, it feels like she is trying to push My fingers out of her, those are the times she squirts…yes, she is a squirter as well. She says she had only squirted once before she met Me, but since then, well she has squirted a lot. She knows how much I love it, and that has allowed her to relax and let go. Tonight she was beyond turned on, she was flying.

I could feel she was ready, and I told her to cum for Me, to cum for Daddy and she did, squirting a bit around My fingers. She wasn’t done, not by a long shot, and soon she was there again, squirting more, spraying a huge amount, soaking My pants from hip to knee. Again she came, squirting again, and this time I was lucky enough to have My mouth on her, getting a mouthful of her cum, sweet and beautiful, so intimate, so fucking hot.

I knew she had more in her, and I was not going to stop until she had been totally satisfied. Her pleasure gives Me pleasure. She came again, squirting across the seat and this is when it happened, this strange and beautiful thing that has NEVER happened to me before, she changed physically.

A quick aside here; a few weeks ago, daisy was on her knees sucking My cock after a play session. I was sitting on a couch watching her when something happened. Her face changed a bit into someone else, no seriously it did. Her incredibly beautiful green eyes changed to black and her face changed as well. She became this dark, exotic woman who I later named innana. It was her true slave self, something that has never shown itself before, but is now evident to both of us.

Now back to Saturday night. When I said she changed physically, I really mean that. Her feet were against the door and she was laying across My lap and she started arching her back so much she was almost touching the ceiling, and it happened, she got physically smaller and she changed into a young girl with budding breasts, hairless cunt (although daisy is always smooth this gave Me the impression of not old enough to grow hair yet, not of being shaved) a true little girl.

I was a bit freaked out, but incredibly turned on as well. I was witnessing something beyond anything I had ever seen sexually. I have always told her I play on a higher plane than sex and that I could take her places she can’t imagine, but here was My woman turning into a little girl before My eyes, and taking ME places I’ve never imagined! It was amazing and beyond words.

She came and squirted and flopped down into My lap and then there was another huge spasm and she came again, squirting out an incredible amount around My fingers. My seat was awash with her juices, the car filled with the intoxicating smell of her, and I almost came in My pants!

In all, she squirted 7 times, draining every ounce of fluid from her. I felt like I had cum as many times as well, but she wasn’t satisfied with that, she asked to taste Me, to pleasure Me, to swallow Me, to thank Me for making her feel safe enough to let go and squirt, fly, be who she is inside.

As she sucked Me, I could feel how much she loves Me, the devotion and gratitude she feels that she feels can’t ever express enough to Me. She knows I know, that I am blessed to have her in My life.

She is the most incredible woman I have ever met, this shape shifting ball of energy is Mine forever.

Yes, this really did happen, she changed, I saw AND felt it. Someone once told Me that I can see and feel things that others can’t, perhaps that’s what I happened, that I “saw” what she was feeling inside, that she felt like a little girl playing with her Daddy. I really don’t know, but I look forward to being with her again and finding out what else she has inside her.

Thank you dasiy for honoring Me by calling Me Daddy, Master, Lover, I love you so.

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~Thank you.

Be an ABCs contributor:  Have a story or perspective to share about kink or want to promote a kinky event?  Email Karin directly at: Karin@ABCsOfKink.com or fill out the as-anonymous-as-you-want-it-to-be feedback form below and you could see your writing published as a part of Wednesday’s “Perspectives on Kink: Conversations with the Community” blog on this site.  Don’t know what to write about?  Consider answering some of the Survey Questions I posted recently.  Happy writing, and thanks!

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