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The delicate and creative labor of a love letter is not lost on me. I have written them myself since the ripe young age of 8 (at first to my best friend, who I realize in hindsight was also legitimately my first love). The amazing feeling of sharing oneself, open and wanting, declarative and challenging, daring a connection in return, an offering for the object of one’s desire, is unparalleled in the giving and receiving. This week I was sent an example of such a beautiful creature from a reader. I hope it inspires you as much as it has me.
Following is a love letter. Some succeed in their hopes while others fail, but the place one comes from when it is written well, is real.
To Breath and Being,
~ Karin
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Hello love,
I have been meditating on my desire to be in a D/s relationship with you after our conversations lately. In particular our conversation last night and the night before when we spoke about active vs. non-active domination, intent, desire, and connection and how it fits into the Dominant/submissive power dynamic we both want present in our relationship. It’s an amazing thing to think about, especially when it feels right. I just want you to know that it does feel right. It feels natural and amazing when we are connected this way.
One important thing I know I want in this relationship, and we have spoken about this numerous times, is to be nurturing and loving towards you. I want you to feel loved, cared for, adored, fulfilled, etc… the feelings are endless. I want us both to be able to get over our fears and trust each other completely. To know that we both belong in this relationship and deserve to be happy in it. I want us both to be able to grow together and experience things together. I feel like it just dawned on me, despite having numerous conversations about it, that sex, love, desire, trust, happiness, etc… are feelings we should give and receive. That the things I desire from you should in some way inspire and promote growth. There have been times when I haven’t considered your safety and desires along with mine. That’s something that is going to change. I want you. I desire you. I need you. I am so smitten with you, my dear. We are going to work through all of our problems with wonderful communication. We’re going to become closer and our relationship is going to be really strong, loving, and safe. I want that for us.
I never want to give you a reason to feel unsafe with anything I desire of you. I LOVE LOVE LOVE it when you tell me yes. I always want you to feel INSPIRED and SAFE when you say it though.
As you know, one thing I desire from you is anal play. You know that because we have been talking about it a lot. I know it’s not the most comfortable thing because of your relationship with that part of your body. I want to create comfort around that type of play for you. I want you to trust that your ass is a wonderful, beautiful, sexy, and a desirable part of your body. I have told you how I feel about it. I still feel that way. I want this type of play to be pleasurable to you and I don’t want you to miss out on pleasurable experiences because you feel disconnected from that part of your body.
I also want to help you love your body as much as I love it.
So, I’m doing some research on safe anal play. There are a lot of videos on kink academy that I have yet to watch. However, I thought there was some great information in these videos about internal and external anal play. Let me know what you think.
External: http://www.kinkacademy.com/
Internal: http://www.kinkacademy.com/
I love you so much. You’re mine and I am proud and ecstatic that you’re mine. I want to do everything I can to make you feel the same.
~ Anonymous
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~Thank you.
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