Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are

Leather Pride Flag atop the San Francisco Armory

Leather Pride Flag atop the San Francisco Armory

This week in our perspectives blog, I am asking for people to write me with their coming out kinky stories.  Having come out in my lifetime a few different times for various reasons, I know firsthand how these stories can be fascinating, moving, inspirational, educational, and transformative to the listener.  Please consider throwing your voice into the mix of people who write about their experiences.  Your perspective is uniquely yours and valuable in the world of understanding our human sexuality more intimately.

Whether you barely remember what it was like to not identify as kinky, or you still are trying to figure out if you’re kinky enough to claim anything out loud, or you’re part of all the variations in between, I want to hear your voice!

Email me at: and you can share your story anonymously or credited as you wish.  I am the only one who sees the email that I receive, and I’ll ask your permission and preferences before publishing.  You can also fill out the form at the end of the page, and it’ll go to the same place.

BDSM Rights Flag

BDSM Rights Flag

I look forward to learning more about the diversity of our readership, about the journeys each of you is on, and about what’s possible in the world of meaning making.  I thank you sincerely in advance!

To Breath and Being,
~ Karin

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~Thank you.


Be an ABCs contributor:  Have a story or perspective to share about kink or want to promote a kinky event?  Email Karin directly at: or fill out the as-anonymous-as-you-want-it-to-be feedback form below and you could see your writing published as a part of Wednesday’s “Perspectives on Kink: Conversations with the Community” blog on this site.  Don’t know what to write about?  Consider answering some of the Survey Questions I posted recently.  Happy writing, and thanks!

Questions, curiosities, or just wanna know more? Email:

or fill out this anonymous form:

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