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“I’ve got some questions for you”, she murmured.  “We can do this here or downtown at the joint.  It’s up to you…”

Hello My Friends, today I’d like to ask you for some help:  I’d like to read some coming out kinky stories.

Most people start out new to the idea of kink somewhere along the way.  It’s usually an adjustment.  For some people beginning to find their place identifying as kinky it’s easy, and for some it is confusing or they have a hard time knowing how to “do” the things they are supposed to do to feel the way they think they are supposed to feel.  Some people learn the ropes by finding a kinky beau, or maybe they have friends who can introduce them to a larger kinky community.  Some people practice in private for years before mustering up the courage to meet people face to face and try these things out…  Everyone has a story of some sort.  I’d like to hear them.

What was it like (or what IS it like) to figure out how to be the kinky you you identify as?

Feel free to take this question any which way you like, I’m just looking for stories and ideas and lessons from a variety of sources about what it’s like to be a newbie, and (if it applies to your experience) what tricks or tips you have for people who are newly on their way.

Please write your answers/ideas/stories to me at: or just reply below, I’d really love to hear your thoughts on this subject.

To Breath and Being,
~ Karin

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~Thank you.


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