Kink List 2014

As we close out the first Month of 2014 I wanted to share some of the Kinky New Year Resolutions I received from people recently:

  • Create kinky art through painting/drawing
  • Have another safe 6 person orgy with my Rhode Island friends!
  • More rope bondage and how to effectively/safely apply it in scenes and sexual encounters with my partner
  • Become more comfortable with dealing pain
  • Get better at negotiations and role playing within scenes
  • Use more toys on my partner
  • Better appreciate and support my partner’s submissive side  while I continue to grow in confidence and be more loving, nurturing, caring, and Dominant
  • 2014 will be my year of butt sex (and skip to 1:00 for:  ROBOT BUTT? — Mind Blow #42)
  • Learn more about my submissive identity
  • Wax play (gotta find a good space)
  • Go to Fetishcon 2014 in Tampa, FL this year as a photographer instead of a model
  • Attend the Fetish Flea for the 1st time
  • Attend a Bound in Boston play party with my fiance
  • Go to less Sinomatic/Jaded events (feeling too old now)
  • Orgasm from breath control alone
  • Conquer my fear of certain fetish gear items
  • Chastity play
  • Go to my first kink party
  • Find a fisting partner
  • Start *doing* kink (because now I’m tied down to someone I like!)
  • Find a third partner
  • Incorporate bondage into sex
  • Tickling
  • Finish making that strap-on harness out of the materials I’ve been collecting so I can finally fuck people with it

Thank you contributors, what a lovely gorgeous naughty list!  While I hope you’re never too old to play well with others, it looks like there are a lot of different events and opportunities people have to play, learn, and experiment at this year.  And wherever you are, the Kink Fairy blesses you to go out and make it happen.  This list has given me some ideas too; I hope, Dear Readers, that all this talk of Kinky fun inspires your own desires.

To Breath and Being,
~ Karin

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